"The great danger for family life, in the midst of any society whose idols are pleasure, comfort and independence, lies in the fact that people close their hearts and become selfish"
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The subtext is classic Wojtyla: freedom without responsibility curdles into isolation. “Independence” reads as a virtue in liberal democracies, but he flips it into a temptation, a story we tell ourselves to justify opting out of obligations that don’t feel immediately fulfilling. The danger to family life is not external persecution; it’s internal withdrawal. “People close their hearts” is pastoral language for what social scientists might call detachment, but it lands harder because it frames emotional self-protection as a spiritual choice, not just a coping mechanism.
Context matters. John Paul II came of age under Nazism and Soviet communism, regimes that brutalized family structures through fear and surveillance. His later critique of consumerism isn’t nostalgia for tradition so much as a warning that soft forms of coercion exist too: advertising, convenience, and a therapeutic culture that treats sacrifice as pathology. The line “people close their hearts and become selfish” reads like an x-ray of a society where commitment is always negotiable and love is measured by personal comfort.
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II, Pope John Paul. (2026, January 18). The great danger for family life, in the midst of any society whose idols are pleasure, comfort and independence, lies in the fact that people close their hearts and become selfish. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-danger-for-family-life-in-the-midst-of-1258/
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II, Pope John Paul. "The great danger for family life, in the midst of any society whose idols are pleasure, comfort and independence, lies in the fact that people close their hearts and become selfish." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-danger-for-family-life-in-the-midst-of-1258/.
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"The great danger for family life, in the midst of any society whose idols are pleasure, comfort and independence, lies in the fact that people close their hearts and become selfish." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-danger-for-family-life-in-the-midst-of-1258/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.









