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Life & Wisdom Quote by Lafcadio Hearn

"The great principle of Western society is that competition rules here as it rules in everything else. The best man - that is to say, the strongest and cleverest - is likely to get the best woman, in the sense of the most beautiful person"

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Hearn isn’t admiring “Western society” here so much as pinning it to a specimen board. The sentence marches with the confidence of a law of nature, then quietly reveals its real target: how easily a culture can dress up appetite and hierarchy as principle. “Competition rules here” sounds like political philosophy, but the payoff is intimate and transactional: who gets “the best woman,” reduced to “the most beautiful person.” It’s social Darwinism rewritten as dating advice, and that mismatch is the point.

The intent is diagnostic. By defining “best man” as “strongest and cleverest,” Hearn smuggles in a critique of how merit gets measured: not by virtue, not by public good, but by traits that win contests. The phrase “that is to say” performs a neat act of ideological translation, turning a moral word (“best”) into a muscular one (“strongest”). Then he applies that logic to women, who are framed not as competitors but as prizes, their “best” collapsed into surface value. The subtext is bleak: a society that worships competition doesn’t stop at markets; it organizes desire, marriage, and status the same way.

Context sharpens the edge. Writing in the late 19th century, when evolutionary language was being misused to justify inequality, Hearn echoes the era’s fashionable cynicism while exposing its gendered bargain. His clinical tone is part of the critique: when you state the ugly rule plainly, it sounds less like wisdom and more like indictment.

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Hearn, Lafcadio. (2026, January 17). The great principle of Western society is that competition rules here as it rules in everything else. The best man - that is to say, the strongest and cleverest - is likely to get the best woman, in the sense of the most beautiful person. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-principle-of-western-society-is-that-63142/

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Hearn, Lafcadio. "The great principle of Western society is that competition rules here as it rules in everything else. The best man - that is to say, the strongest and cleverest - is likely to get the best woman, in the sense of the most beautiful person." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-principle-of-western-society-is-that-63142/.

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"The great principle of Western society is that competition rules here as it rules in everything else. The best man - that is to say, the strongest and cleverest - is likely to get the best woman, in the sense of the most beautiful person." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-principle-of-western-society-is-that-63142/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Lafcadio Hearn (June 27, 1850 - September 26, 1904) was a Author from Japan.

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