"The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been"
About this Quote
The key verb is "lose". It quietly disputes the idea that childhood and young adulthood are disposable stages you grow out of, like a wardrobe. L'Engle’s subtext is that maturity doesn’t have to mean erasure. You can carry your teenage intensity, your 20-something risk appetite, your 30-something competence, not as nostalgia but as usable materials. That’s also why the quote lands emotionally: it offers comfort without sentimentality. It’s not "aging is beautiful"; it’s "aging is layered."
Context matters. L'Engle wrote across decades, best known for work that treated time, memory, and identity as pliable rather than linear. In a society that markets anti-aging as a moral duty, her sentence reads like quiet resistance: you’re not obligated to betray your former selves to be taken seriously. For artists, parents, believers, anyone with a long inner life, it’s an argument for continuity. The older you get, the more characters you’ve lived. The trick is remembering they’re still in the cast.
Quote Details
| Topic | Aging |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: The Things That Really Matter (Michael Hauskeller, 2022) modern compilationISBN: 9781800082175 · ID: jZZsEAAAQBAJ
Evidence:
Philosophical conversations on the cornerstones of life Michael Hauskeller. As Madeleine L'Engle said , “ The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been.'15 An old person can look back over the ... |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
L'Engle, Madeleine. (2026, March 22). The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-thing-about-getting-older-is-that-you-114445/
Chicago Style
L'Engle, Madeleine. "The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been." FixQuotes. March 22, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-thing-about-getting-older-is-that-you-114445/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been." FixQuotes, 22 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-great-thing-about-getting-older-is-that-you-114445/. Accessed 27 Mar. 2026.











