"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves"
About this Quote
The line pivots on a subtle self-correction: “loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.” That “or rather” is the knife. Hugo first offers the clean, flattering ideal (being loved for your essential self), then undercuts it with a darker, more honest claim: our “selves” are messy, contradictory, sometimes actively unlovable. The happiness he prizes is not the narcissistic fantasy of being perfectly understood; it’s the shock of being accepted even when you’re fully exposed, including the parts you would edit out.
Context matters. Hugo wrote as a novelist of outsized moral weather, steeped in the social wreckage of 19th-century France, obsessed with stigma, punishment, and redemption. In a world eager to sort people into categories - sinner, outcast, respectable - this sentence insists that love is the one force that refuses the filing system. The subtext is almost political: real love breaks the economy of merit. It doesn’t reward the polished version of you; it stays when the case against you is strongest.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Unverified source: Les Misérables (Fantine: The Descent, ch. 4) (Victor Hugo, 1862)
Evidence: Part I (Fantine), Book V (The Descent), Chapter IV. Primary-source match in the original French text: “Le suprême bonheur de la vie, c'est la conviction qu'on est aimé ; aimé pour soi-même, disons mieux, aimé malgré soi-même …”. This corresponds to the common English rendering “The greatest/supre... Other candidates (2) Wisdom for the Soul (Larry Chang, 2006) compilation96.1% ... The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved – loved for ourselves , or rather , loved in s... Victor Hugo (Victor Hugo) compilation35.5% the earth to rest like tongues of fire upon the brow of all nations it presided over the communion of intellects conc... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hugo, Victor. (2026, January 13). The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-greatest-happiness-of-life-is-the-conviction-10562/
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Hugo, Victor. "The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-greatest-happiness-of-life-is-the-conviction-10562/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-greatest-happiness-of-life-is-the-conviction-10562/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









