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Love Quote by Eden Ahbez

"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved, just to love and be loved"

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Ahez writes like someone trying to smuggle a manifesto into a lullaby. "The greatest thing you'll ever learn" sets up a grand lesson, the kind you expect from schools, churches, self-help. Then he collapses the curriculum into one looping, almost childlike refrain: "to love and be loved, just to love and be loved". The repetition isn’t decorative; it’s an insistence, a corrective. Love isn’t presented as a mystical bonus or a romantic jackpot but as the core competency everything else distracts you from.

The subtext is quietly radical for its era. Ahbez lived the bohemian, back-to-nature outsider life, suspicious of status, commerce, and the modern grind. Read in that context, the line is less Hallmark and more anti-industrial: the point of being alive isn’t achievement or accumulation, it’s reciprocity. Not conquest, not possession, not even the glamorous version of romance, but a simple two-way human exchange. The phrase "be loved" matters as much as "to love" because it denies the martyr fantasy; you don’t get moral points for pouring yourself out in private misery. You’re meant to receive, too.

It also works because it’s musically engineered. The sentence moves like a chorus, designed to be remembered and repeated until it feels true. By the time it ends, you’ve already sung it to yourself twice. That’s the trick: the message isn’t argued, it’s installed.

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TopicLove
Source"Nature Boy" (song), lyrics by Eden Ahbez, 1948 — commonly cited lyric: "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." (popularized by Nat King Cole's 1948 recording)
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Eden Ahbez (April 15, 1908 - March 4, 1995) was a Musician from USA.

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