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Happiness Quote by Alfred Lord Tennyson

"The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions"

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Tennyson’s line rejects the Victorian fantasy of serenity as emotional blankness. He’s not selling stoicism as numbness; he’s arguing for sovereignty. Happiness, in this framing, isn’t a life scrubbed clean of desire, grief, jealousy, appetite. It’s a life in which those forces remain present but no longer run the government.

The word “mastery” is the hinge. It carries the era’s moral musculature - self-command, discipline, the cultivated gentleman - but it also hints at anxiety: passions are assumed to be unruly, even dangerous, requiring management rather than expression. That’s the subtext: human feeling is inevitable, and the modern self is defined by how it negotiates that inevitability. Tennyson offers an ethic that is simultaneously compassionate (you will have storms) and demanding (you must learn to steer).

Context matters. Writing in a 19th-century Britain obsessed with respectability, duty, and social order, Tennyson speaks to a culture trying to reconcile Romantic intensity with industrial-era restraint. His own work often stages that conflict: longing and doubt press against the need for composure and purpose. The line reads like a distilled survival strategy for a world where private turbulence had to be made compatible with public function.

It also slyly redefines happiness as an active verb. Not a mood that arrives when problems disappear, but a practiced competence: the ability to live with fire without getting burned by it.

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Tennyson, Alfred Lord. (2026, January 15). The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-happiness-of-a-man-in-this-life-does-not-40540/

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Tennyson, Alfred Lord. "The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-happiness-of-a-man-in-this-life-does-not-40540/.

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"The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-happiness-of-a-man-in-this-life-does-not-40540/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alfred Lord Tennyson

Alfred Lord Tennyson (August 6, 1809 - October 6, 1892) was a Poet from England.

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