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Life & Wisdom Quote by Janet Erskine Stuart

"The hard thing is to stick to things when you have outlived the first interest, and not yet got the second which comes with a sort of mastery"

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Discipline, in Janet Erskine Stuart's framing, isn't a heroic grind; it's a quiet, awkward middle age of the mind. The "hard thing" isn't starting. It's staying once the novelty wears off and before competence starts paying emotional dividends. That gap - after "the first interest" has died and before the "second" arrives - is where projects, vocations, even relationships often go to disappear. Stuart isolates a phase most motivational talk skips because it's neither glamorous nor narratively clean.

The genius of the line is its timing. She doesn't romanticize early passion, and she doesn't pretend mastery is immediate. She treats motivation like weather: it changes, it doesn't ask permission, and you can't build a life around it. The "second" interest is a different species of desire, not a rerun of initial infatuation. It "comes with a sort of mastery" - that telling hedge, "a sort of", suggesting mastery isn't a trophy but a new intimacy with difficulty. You begin to like the work for what it is, not for how it makes you feel.

As a poet and, historically, a writer steeped in moral and spiritual formation, Stuart is also smuggling in an ethic: fidelity to a practice when it stops rewarding you. The subtext is almost pastoral. If you can endure the dull corridor between spark and skill, you earn the only motivation that lasts - the one rooted in capability, not excitement.

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Stuart, Janet Erskine. (n.d.). The hard thing is to stick to things when you have outlived the first interest, and not yet got the second which comes with a sort of mastery. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-hard-thing-is-to-stick-to-things-when-you-169830/

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Stuart, Janet Erskine. "The hard thing is to stick to things when you have outlived the first interest, and not yet got the second which comes with a sort of mastery." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-hard-thing-is-to-stick-to-things-when-you-169830/.

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"The hard thing is to stick to things when you have outlived the first interest, and not yet got the second which comes with a sort of mastery." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-hard-thing-is-to-stick-to-things-when-you-169830/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Janet Erskine Stuart is a Poet from England.

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