"The hardest thing is at the end you have to say bye to all these people who you have worked with for so many months. It was really sad not to see them anymore. But you have the parties that you go to and you get to see them, like the premieres and the screenings"
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The line works because it refuses the tidy myth of celebrity detachment. Fanning doesn’t posture as above it; she admits the sadness plainly, almost childlike in its directness. That plainness is the subtext: in a business that monetizes emotion on camera, she’s naming an emotion off camera that doesn’t have a script or a closing shot.
Her pivot to “parties… premieres and screenings” is telling. Those events are framed as consolation, but they’re also a reminder of how the industry tries to ritualize loss. You don’t get reunions in living rooms; you get red carpets and publicity cycles. The social glue is professional, not personal, and even the comfort is mediated by the work product being celebrated.
Context matters, too: Fanning started young, meaning her sense of community likely formed on sets as much as in classrooms. What sounds like a simple wrap-day lament becomes a subtle statement about modern labor - how workplaces create intense bonds, then ask you to move on as if intensity was disposable.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fanning, Dakota. (2026, January 17). The hardest thing is at the end you have to say bye to all these people who you have worked with for so many months. It was really sad not to see them anymore. But you have the parties that you go to and you get to see them, like the premieres and the screenings. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-hardest-thing-is-at-the-end-you-have-to-say-40064/
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Fanning, Dakota. "The hardest thing is at the end you have to say bye to all these people who you have worked with for so many months. It was really sad not to see them anymore. But you have the parties that you go to and you get to see them, like the premieres and the screenings." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-hardest-thing-is-at-the-end-you-have-to-say-40064/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The hardest thing is at the end you have to say bye to all these people who you have worked with for so many months. It was really sad not to see them anymore. But you have the parties that you go to and you get to see them, like the premieres and the screenings." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-hardest-thing-is-at-the-end-you-have-to-say-40064/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




