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Happiness Quote by Marguerite Duras

"The house a woman creates is a Utopia. She can't help it - can't help trying to interest her nearest and dearest not in happiness itself but in the search for it"

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Duras frames domestic life as a kind of beautiful trap: the home a woman makes becomes "a Utopia", not because it achieves perfection, but because it’s built on the compulsion to imagine perfection into being. The line turns on an almost offhand fatalism - "She can't help it" - that sounds tender at first, then lands as indictment. Women are cast as architects of an ideal they will never be allowed to fully inhabit, responsible for producing atmosphere, cohesion, meaning. Utopia here isn’t a reward; it’s a mandate.

The sharper move is the pivot from "happiness itself" to "the search for it". Duras suggests the household runs on perpetual striving: keeping loved ones oriented toward a quest, a project, a horizon. That’s psychologically astute and politically barbed. If happiness were attained, the labor could stop. The search keeps the machine humming: plans, improvements, rituals, emotional calibration. It’s care work disguised as destiny.

Context matters. Duras wrote out of mid-century France, in the long shadow of war and amid re-litigations of women’s roles - wife, mother, worker, muse. Her fiction often exposes how desire and power circulate through everyday spaces. This sentence compresses that worldview into domestic scale: the home as a stage where women are expected to produce not just comfort, but narrative momentum. Everyone gets to feel hopeful; she gets to keep it going.

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Marguerite Duras (April 4, 1914 - March 3, 1996) was a Novelist from France.

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