"The house a woman creates is a Utopia. She can't help it - can't help trying to interest her nearest and dearest not in happiness itself but in the search for it"
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The sharper move is the pivot from "happiness itself" to "the search for it". Duras suggests the household runs on perpetual striving: keeping loved ones oriented toward a quest, a project, a horizon. That’s psychologically astute and politically barbed. If happiness were attained, the labor could stop. The search keeps the machine humming: plans, improvements, rituals, emotional calibration. It’s care work disguised as destiny.
Context matters. Duras wrote out of mid-century France, in the long shadow of war and amid re-litigations of women’s roles - wife, mother, worker, muse. Her fiction often exposes how desire and power circulate through everyday spaces. This sentence compresses that worldview into domestic scale: the home as a stage where women are expected to produce not just comfort, but narrative momentum. Everyone gets to feel hopeful; she gets to keep it going.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duras, Marguerite. (2026, January 15). The house a woman creates is a Utopia. She can't help it - can't help trying to interest her nearest and dearest not in happiness itself but in the search for it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-house-a-woman-creates-is-a-utopia-she-cant-76036/
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Duras, Marguerite. "The house a woman creates is a Utopia. She can't help it - can't help trying to interest her nearest and dearest not in happiness itself but in the search for it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-house-a-woman-creates-is-a-utopia-she-cant-76036/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The house a woman creates is a Utopia. She can't help it - can't help trying to interest her nearest and dearest not in happiness itself but in the search for it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-house-a-woman-creates-is-a-utopia-she-cant-76036/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.






