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Daily Inspiration Quote by Ben Stein

"The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want"

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Ben Stein’s line reads like a fortune cookie, but it’s really a piece of old-school American self-help dressed in a deadpan suit. Its punch is the word “indispensable”: he’s not offering motivation so much as a gatekeeping rule. Before hustle, grit, networking, or “manifesting,” you need a target. The sentence has the clean, almost bureaucratic clarity of a checklist, and that’s the point. Stein, famous for playing the monotone authority figure, sells certainty by stripping away drama. Desire becomes paperwork: fill out the form first.

The intent is pragmatic bordering on corrective. It’s aimed at the common modern condition of wanting “more” while staying vague enough to avoid the risk of choosing. Deciding what you want forces trade-offs. It also forces responsibility. Once you name the thing, you can’t hide behind the comforting fog of dissatisfaction; your life becomes accountable to a concrete aim. That’s the subtext: ambiguity isn’t deep, it’s evasive.

Culturally, the quote lands in a late-20th-century ecosystem of careerism and personal-brand thinking, where “goals” are treated as moral virtues. It echoes boardroom logic: strategy before execution. Yet the line’s elegance also smuggles in a blind spot. Plenty of people know exactly what they want and still face structural barriers; decision is not the only “first step.” Stein’s rhetorical move is to make agency feel total, because it’s calming. If your problem is just indecision, the fix is simple: choose, then act.

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Verified source: How Successful People Win (Ben Stein, 1981)ISBN: 9781401919658
Text match: 100.00%   Provider: Cross-Reference
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The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. (Chapter 1, “Decide What You Want” (page number not verifiable from available preview)). The quote is attributed on multiple quote sites to Ben Stein’s book How Successful People Win: Using “Bunkhouse Logic” to Get What You Want in Life, but those are secondary. A primary-source ebook preview hosted by Everand shows the book’s copyright and publication history: “Copyright © 1981 by Ben Stein” and “Originally published as Bunkhouse Logic in November 1981 by Avon Books.” This strongly indicates the earliest publication of the line would be in that 1981 Avon Books edition (title: Bunkhouse Logic), later revised/reprinted as How Successful People Win (Hay House; first Hay House printing March 2006). However, the preview I accessed does not expose stable print page numbering for the quote itself, so I cannot responsibly claim “p.18” as often listed on quote sites. The quote’s capitalization also appears as “Decide” in the preview, which is the exact wording copied here. Source for the publication-history statements is within the Everand preview text. ([everand.com](https://www.everand.com/book/770548009/How-Successful-People-Win-Using-Bunkhouse-Logic-to-Get-What-You-Want-in-Life))
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The 7 Truths of Life (Senghor Pope, 2010) compilation95.0%
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Stein, Ben. (2026, February 9). The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-indispensable-first-step-to-getting-the-170053/

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Stein, Ben. "The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-indispensable-first-step-to-getting-the-170053/.

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"The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-indispensable-first-step-to-getting-the-170053/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ben Stein (born November 25, 1944) is a Actor from USA.

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