"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself"
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The genius is in the emotional price tag: lonely, frightened. Nietzsche isn’t selling stoic invulnerability; he’s describing the physiological reality of breaking with consensus. Fear isn’t a sign you’re doing it wrong, it’s proof you’ve stepped outside the herd’s protection. “Overwhelmed” implies not just disagreement but absorption - the tribe doesn’t merely punish difference, it dissolves it.
“Privilege of owning yourself” hits with characteristic provocation. Selfhood here isn’t a given, it’s property you must defend and continually earn, which flips modern therapeutic talk on its head. The subtext is an attack on moral systems that smuggle conformity in as goodness - the “herd morality” he skewers throughout Beyond Good and Evil and On the Genealogy of Morality, where safety and sameness get baptized as ethics.
Context matters: late-19th-century Europe is industrializing, mass politics and mass culture are thickening, and Nietzsche is already diagnosing the coming age of crowds. He’s not preaching isolation for its own sake; he’s insisting that any genuine creativity, honesty, or reevaluation of values begins with the willingness to be socially homeless. The line works because it makes autonomy feel less like self-care and more like insurrection.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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| Source | Later attribution: Chew on Things - It Helps You Think (Iris Bell, 2007) modern compilationISBN: 9780979165320 · ID: 7Kxr9eOfqNQC
Evidence: ... The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe . If you try it , you will be lonely often , and sometimes frightened . But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself ... Other candidates (1) The Kipling Journal: “Six Hours with Rudyard Kipling” (Friedrich Nietzsche, 1967)50.0% " The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard... |
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Nietzsche, Friedrich. "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-individual-has-always-had-to-struggle-to-keep-133881/.
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"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-individual-has-always-had-to-struggle-to-keep-133881/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.
