"The interval between a cold expectation and a warm desire may be filled by expectations of varying degrees of warmth or by desires of varying degrees of coldness"
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The trick is the temperature metaphor. “Cold” and “warm” do a lot of work without psychological jargon: cold expectation is the resigned forecast (“this is how it goes”), warm desire is the felt pull (“this is how I want it”). But Alexander insists the gap isn’t a simple binary. You can have expectations that are warmed by hope, faith, or optimism; you can have desires cooled by skepticism, shame, or a practiced sense of disappointment. That’s the subtext: our inner life is often a negotiation, not a clash of opposites.
Context matters because Alexander, in an era of scientific confidence and social upheaval, was invested in continuities rather than sharp divides. He’s pushing back against the idea that reason and feeling are separate departments. By describing gradients, he also smuggles in a moral-psychological insight: self-deception and self-control both operate in the middle zone. We survive by adjusting the temperature of what we expect and what we allow ourselves to want.
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Alexander, Samuel. (2026, January 16). The interval between a cold expectation and a warm desire may be filled by expectations of varying degrees of warmth or by desires of varying degrees of coldness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-interval-between-a-cold-expectation-and-a-86193/
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Alexander, Samuel. "The interval between a cold expectation and a warm desire may be filled by expectations of varying degrees of warmth or by desires of varying degrees of coldness." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-interval-between-a-cold-expectation-and-a-86193/.
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"The interval between a cold expectation and a warm desire may be filled by expectations of varying degrees of warmth or by desires of varying degrees of coldness." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-interval-between-a-cold-expectation-and-a-86193/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














