"The joy, late coming, late departs"
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The subtext is less about punctuality than about readiness. Joy, in this view, isn’t a stable possession you can schedule like a meeting. It’s a visitor with its own timetable, one that depends on conditions: attention, openness, the willingness to take a moment seriously when it shows up. If you keep telling yourself you’ll celebrate after the next milestone, the next fix, the next promotion, you don’t just miss joy; you train yourself to distrust it. By the time it finally appears, you’re practiced at deferring - and the feeling can’t take root.
Contextually, Bates reads like a minor late-19th-century or early-20th-century moralist-poet, working in that tradition of aphoristic verse meant to be memorized, recited, and used as self-governance. The line’s economy is the point: joy is fleeting, and the language refuses to indulge. It hurries you, on purpose.
Quote Details
| Topic | Joy |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Cyclopaedia of Practical Quotations, English and Latin (Jehiel Keeler Hoyt, 1886) modern compilationID: RJNBAAAAYAAJ
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... The joy late coming late departs . m . LEWIS J. BATES - Some Sweet Day . An Infant when it gazes on a light , A child the moment when it drains the breast , A devotee when soars the Host in sight , An Arab with a stranger for a guest ... |
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