"The key to being a good manager is keeping the people who hate me away from those who are still undecided"
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The intent is practical, almost tactical. He’s not trying to convert the “people who hate me.” He’s trying to prevent them from becoming missionaries. The subtext is that morale isn’t just an internal feeling; it’s a social ecosystem. A clubhouse (or office) doesn’t implode because one person is unhappy. It implodes when the unhappy person gets an audience, starts narrating every decision as betrayal, and recruits the wavering into a story of grievance.
What makes the quote work is the sly self-awareness. Stengel doesn’t pretend he’s universally liked or that good leadership magically dissolves resentment. He frames “undecided” as a movable middle, a reminder that most people aren’t ideologues; they’re persuadable, tired, and highly responsive to whoever seems most certain. He’s also confessing that authority is, at least partly, a PR problem: keep your skeptics quarantined long enough for results to speak, or for the next win to reset the room.
It’s funny because it’s blunt. It’s enduring because it’s true: culture is often just the careful management of proximity.
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| Topic | Management |
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Stengel, Casey. (2026, January 14). The key to being a good manager is keeping the people who hate me away from those who are still undecided. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-key-to-being-a-good-manager-is-keeping-the-5420/
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MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The key to being a good manager is keeping the people who hate me away from those who are still undecided." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-key-to-being-a-good-manager-is-keeping-the-5420/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





