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Daily Inspiration Quote by Ruby Dee

"The kind of beauty I want most is the hard-to-get kind that comes from within - strength, courage, dignity"

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Ruby Dee is rejecting beauty as a passive accolade and recasting it as an earned condition. “Hard-to-get” is the tell: she’s not talking about the luck of genetics or the soft-focus glamour of a camera lens. She’s talking about a beauty that resists extraction, something you can’t purchase, flatter out of someone, or demand on schedule. Coming from an actress - a profession that has historically treated women’s faces as disposable commodities - the line reads like a refusal to be appraised on the industry’s terms.

The phrase “comes from within” could sound like greeting-card wisdom in lesser hands, but Dee anchors it with a triad that’s blunt, almost juridical: strength, courage, dignity. Those aren’t decorative qualities; they’re survival skills, especially for a Black woman navigating mid-century American stages and screens where roles were limited, scrutiny was constant, and “beauty” often meant assimilation. Her definition smuggles politics into aesthetics: strength as endurance against erasure, courage as the willingness to speak and act publicly, dignity as the insistence on self-possession in spaces designed to strip it away.

The intent isn’t to downplay physical beauty; it’s to demote it. Dee reframes beauty as character under pressure - the look of someone who has lived through contradiction and kept her center. It’s a quietly radical move: turning what’s usually used to confine women into a vocabulary of agency.

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Dee, Ruby. (2026, January 16). The kind of beauty I want most is the hard-to-get kind that comes from within - strength, courage, dignity. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-kind-of-beauty-i-want-most-is-the-hard-to-get-116571/

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Dee, Ruby. "The kind of beauty I want most is the hard-to-get kind that comes from within - strength, courage, dignity." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-kind-of-beauty-i-want-most-is-the-hard-to-get-116571/.

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"The kind of beauty I want most is the hard-to-get kind that comes from within - strength, courage, dignity." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-kind-of-beauty-i-want-most-is-the-hard-to-get-116571/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ruby Dee (born October 27, 1924) is a Actress from USA.

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