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Love Quote by Deepak Chopra

"The less you open your heart to others, the more your heart suffers"

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Chopra’s line flatters the modern fantasy of self-sufficiency, then quietly indicts it. The phrasing is almost arithmetic: “less” openness yields “more” suffering, a tidy moral equation that feels like wellness wisdom but carries a sharper psychological claim. It reframes vulnerability as maintenance, not melodrama. Close the valves, and the pressure doesn’t disappear; it builds inside the system.

The intent is corrective, aimed at the protective instincts that masquerade as maturity: don’t need anyone, don’t risk rejection, keep it “private.” Chopra’s subtext is that isolation is not neutral. Withholding affection isn’t just a boundary; it can become a strategy of emotional hoarding that turns the heart into its own echo chamber, amplifying fear, resentment, and rumination. The line also sidesteps the romanticized idea of suffering as noble. Here, pain isn’t proof of depth; it’s a symptom of disconnection.

Context matters: Chopra’s public philosophy blends spirituality with self-help, arriving in a culture that treats inner peace like a personal productivity metric. In that world, “opening your heart” reads as both interpersonal ethic and wellness prescription. The quote works because it reverses the usual risk calculus. We think openness invites hurt from outside; Chopra argues the greater harm comes from the defensive posture itself. It’s a neat rhetorical pivot: vulnerability isn’t the hazard, it’s the antidote.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chopra, Deepak. (2026, January 18). The less you open your heart to others, the more your heart suffers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-less-you-open-your-heart-to-others-the-more-22101/

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Chopra, Deepak. "The less you open your heart to others, the more your heart suffers." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-less-you-open-your-heart-to-others-the-more-22101/.

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"The less you open your heart to others, the more your heart suffers." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-less-you-open-your-heart-to-others-the-more-22101/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Deepak Chopra (born October 22, 1946) is a Philosopher from USA.

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