"The lesson is that you can still make mistakes and be forgiven"
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The second half, “and be forgiven,” carries the real voltage. Forgiveness isn’t framed as a moral reward, but as a social technology: something granted by communities, employers, fans, and the people you’ve hurt. Coming from Downey, that’s not abstract. His public history includes addiction, arrests, and being written off as uninsurable before his career rebooted into the Marvel era. The subtext is a negotiated truce between private struggle and public ledger-keeping. He’s pointing to a world where consequences exist, but permanence isn’t the only shape they take.
The intent reads less like self-exoneration than a plea for breathable standards in a culture that oscillates between punishment and performance. It’s also a subtle critique of “cancelled forever” fatalism: if mistakes automatically harden into identity, why bother trying to change? Downey’s authority here is experiential, but the appeal is broader: grace isn’t denial of harm; it’s the belief that a person can be more than their worst headline, even while they’re still human enough to generate new ones.
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