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Daily Inspiration Quote by Morrie Schwartz

"The little things, I can obey. But the big things - how we think, what we value - those you must choose yourself. You can't let anyone - or any society - determine those for you"

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There is a quiet provocation in how Morrie Schwartz splits life into “little things” and “big things.” He’s not selling rugged individualism; he’s describing a survival tactic. Obey the small rules that keep the machine from crushing you - paperwork, schedules, manners, the daily compliance a society demands. Save your limited, precious energy for the only terrain that actually belongs to you: your mind and your moral compass.

The line works because it refuses a comforting fantasy. Schwartz doesn’t pretend you can opt out of systems. He admits constraint, then draws a hard boundary where it matters. “How we think, what we value” is not just personal branding; it’s the operating code that decides who you become under pressure. The subtext is that institutions are perfectly happy to manage your body and your time, but they get greedy: they also want to manage your desires, your fears, your definition of success. That’s the “society” he’s warning about - not a villain in a cape, but the soft tyranny of consensus and the loud tyranny of markets.

As an educator, Schwartz is also talking to students and workers trained to equate achievement with virtue. His insistence that you “must choose yourself” reframes adulthood as authorship, not compliance. It’s a call to build an internal authority sturdy enough to withstand applause, shame, and trend cycles. The sentence’s blunt second-person address turns philosophy into a dare: if you outsource your values, you don’t just lose freedom; you lose responsibility.

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TopicFree Will & Fate
Source
Later attribution: The Hidden Faces of Courage (Peter C. Wilcox, 2019) modern compilationISBN: 9781532674754 · ID: AWWLDwAAQBAJ
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schwartz, Morrie. (2026, March 25). The little things, I can obey. But the big things - how we think, what we value - those you must choose yourself. You can't let anyone - or any society - determine those for you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-little-things-i-can-obey-but-the-big-things-5171/

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Schwartz, Morrie. "The little things, I can obey. But the big things - how we think, what we value - those you must choose yourself. You can't let anyone - or any society - determine those for you." FixQuotes. March 25, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-little-things-i-can-obey-but-the-big-things-5171/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The little things, I can obey. But the big things - how we think, what we value - those you must choose yourself. You can't let anyone - or any society - determine those for you." FixQuotes, 25 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-little-things-i-can-obey-but-the-big-things-5171/. Accessed 7 Apr. 2026.

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Morrie Schwartz

Morrie Schwartz (December 20, 1916 - November 4, 1995) was a Educator from USA.

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