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Love Quote by W. Somerset Maugham

"The love that lasts longest is the love that is never returned"

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Maugham’s line is a small cruelty delivered with a playwright’s timing: love endures most reliably when it never has to survive contact with reality. Returned love turns into an arrangement with receipts and routines; unreturned love stays pristine because it never gets tested, negotiated, or disappointed in ordinary ways. The “longest” here isn’t a romantic promise so much as a clinical observation about how obsession outlives reciprocity.

The intent is deliberately anti-sentimental. Maugham isn’t praising noble suffering; he’s pointing to a psychological loophole. When love is unreturned, it becomes a private property, curated by the lover alone. You can project perfection onto the beloved, edit out contradictions, and keep the story running indefinitely because there’s no counter-author. Reciprocity introduces a second consciousness, which means compromise, miscommunication, the slow grind of familiarity. Unrequited love, by contrast, is a monologue that never gets interrupted.

The subtext is also about power. To be loved back is to be pulled into mutual obligation; to love without return is to remain sovereign in your own fantasy, even as you’re wounded by it. That mix of control and pain is what makes it durable. The ache becomes proof of depth, and time spent yearning gets mistaken for evidence of “real” love.

Contextually, Maugham wrote in a world where desire often had to be coded, deferred, or socially impossible. In that landscape, the unreachable wasn’t an accident; it was a structure. The line lands because it recognizes how easily we confuse longevity with truth, and how often permanence is just what happens when nothing ever gets resolved.

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TopicHeartbreak
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Verified source: Oxford Treasury of Sayings and Quotations (Susan Ratcliffe, 2011)
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... The love that lasts longest is the love that is never returned . W. Somerset Maugham 1874–1965 : A Writer's Notebook ( 1949 ) written in 1894 55 I am the Love that dare not speak its name . Lord Alfred Douglas 1870-1945 : ' Two Loves ...
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Maugham, W. Somerset. (2026, February 7). The love that lasts longest is the love that is never returned. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-love-that-lasts-longest-is-the-love-that-is-17958/

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W. Somerset Maugham

W. Somerset Maugham (January 25, 1874 - December 16, 1965) was a Playwright from United Kingdom.

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