"The lover of life makes the whole world into his family, just as the lover of the fair sex creates his from all the lovely women he has found, from those that could be found, and those who are impossible to find"
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The intent is pointedly modern: desire doesn't just attach to objects, it manufactures them. Notice the escalation from "found" to "could be found" to "impossible to find". It's a catalog of the imagination's creep, how it colonizes reality, then the merely plausible, then the purely fantastical. That final category is the tell: the lover's "family" is not built on reciprocity but on projection. Other people become raw material for the self's inner novel.
Context matters. Baudelaire writes from mid-19th-century Paris, where the flaneur roams the city turning crowds into spectacle, and where commodity culture teaches you to want what you don't have, then want something even less attainable. His rhetoric mimics that logic: accumulation as romance, possession as belonging. The line lands because it refuses the comforting version of cosmopolitan love; it insists that an all-embracing gaze can still be predatory, and that the most seductive form of selfishness is the one that calls itself devotion.
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| Topic | Love |
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Baudelaire, Charles. (2026, January 15). The lover of life makes the whole world into his family, just as the lover of the fair sex creates his from all the lovely women he has found, from those that could be found, and those who are impossible to find. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-lover-of-life-makes-the-whole-world-into-his-139932/
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Baudelaire, Charles. "The lover of life makes the whole world into his family, just as the lover of the fair sex creates his from all the lovely women he has found, from those that could be found, and those who are impossible to find." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-lover-of-life-makes-the-whole-world-into-his-139932/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The lover of life makes the whole world into his family, just as the lover of the fair sex creates his from all the lovely women he has found, from those that could be found, and those who are impossible to find." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-lover-of-life-makes-the-whole-world-into-his-139932/. Accessed 27 Feb. 2026.







