"The main cause of my difficulties stemmed from the tragedy of my daughter's unsound birth and my inability to face my feelings"
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The phrasing also carries the period’s harsh vocabulary. “Unsound birth” is a dated, even cruel construction, reflecting a time when disability was treated as defect and family shame, not difference and support. Tierney isn’t endorsing that cruelty so much as revealing the language available to her; it’s what trauma sounds like when it’s filtered through stigma. The word “tragedy” frames the event as fate, but the second clause snaps the focus back to agency: “my inability to face my feelings.” She refuses the easy narrative of pure victimhood and points to emotional avoidance as a compounding wound.
In context, Tierney’s life was marked by postpartum despair and later mental health struggles, including hospitalization. The quote’s intent feels less like self-flagellation than hard-earned diagnosis: pain wasn’t only what happened to her family, but what happened inside her when she couldn’t metabolize it. It works because it’s unpretty. A movie star admitting that the performance she couldn’t manage was her own humanity.
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| Topic | Daughter |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tierney, Gene. (2026, January 17). The main cause of my difficulties stemmed from the tragedy of my daughter's unsound birth and my inability to face my feelings. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-main-cause-of-my-difficulties-stemmed-from-53635/
Chicago Style
Tierney, Gene. "The main cause of my difficulties stemmed from the tragedy of my daughter's unsound birth and my inability to face my feelings." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-main-cause-of-my-difficulties-stemmed-from-53635/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The main cause of my difficulties stemmed from the tragedy of my daughter's unsound birth and my inability to face my feelings." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-main-cause-of-my-difficulties-stemmed-from-53635/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.




