"The main thing experience has taught me is that one has to sort of hone their relationship to time, you know?"
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“Hone their relationship to time” is the key phrase, because it treats time as something negotiated, not endured. For a musician, time is literally material: tempo, pocket, silence, restraint. But Frusciante’s career makes the metaphor feel autobiographical rather than poetic. His on-again, off-again relationship with the Red Hot Chili Peppers, his periods of addiction and withdrawal, his long stretches of obsessive solo work and later electronic experimentation all read like different strategies for living inside the clock - either outrunning it, disappearing from it, or finally syncing with it.
The subtext is self-management without self-help. He’s talking about pacing: how to stay present without being swallowed by urgency, how to create without turning creativity into a crisis, how to let boredom and waiting do their job. It’s a quiet rebuke to the modern cult of acceleration. Not “time heals,” but “time demands technique.”
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"The main thing experience has taught me is that one has to sort of hone their relationship to time, you know?" FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-main-thing-experience-has-taught-me-is-that-70005/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







