"The majority of husbands remind me of an orangutan trying to play the violin"
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Balzac doesn’t just insult husbands; he stages a little salon spectacle where bourgeois masculinity is exposed as clumsy performance. The image is brutal because it’s overqualified: an orangutan is strong, dexterous, even vaguely human-adjacent, yet the violin demands a cultivated finesse that can’t be faked. That gap between capacity and competence is the joke, and the jab lands on a whole social order that pretends refinement is innate rather than trained.
The “majority” matters. Balzac isn’t writing a private grievance; he’s issuing a demographic verdict, the novelist’s version of a statistical sneer. Marriage, in his world, is less romantic covenant than social machine: property, inheritance, respectability. Husbands are the beneficiaries of a system that grants authority without ensuring emotional literacy. So when they attempt the “violin” part of marriage - tenderness, attunement, conversational grace, erotic subtlety - they scrape and saw at it. The humor comes from watching power meet an instrument it doesn’t understand.
There’s subtext about women, too: if the husband is the orangutan, the wife becomes the unwilling audience, forced to applaud the performance because society insists it counts as music. Balzac’s larger project in La Comedie humaine is to anatomize how institutions turn people into types. This line does that in miniature, using animal metaphor not to dehumanize for sport, but to show how certain roles, when handed out by default, make even ordinary men look ridiculous when asked to be truly civilized.
The “majority” matters. Balzac isn’t writing a private grievance; he’s issuing a demographic verdict, the novelist’s version of a statistical sneer. Marriage, in his world, is less romantic covenant than social machine: property, inheritance, respectability. Husbands are the beneficiaries of a system that grants authority without ensuring emotional literacy. So when they attempt the “violin” part of marriage - tenderness, attunement, conversational grace, erotic subtlety - they scrape and saw at it. The humor comes from watching power meet an instrument it doesn’t understand.
There’s subtext about women, too: if the husband is the orangutan, the wife becomes the unwilling audience, forced to applaud the performance because society insists it counts as music. Balzac’s larger project in La Comedie humaine is to anatomize how institutions turn people into types. This line does that in miniature, using animal metaphor not to dehumanize for sport, but to show how certain roles, when handed out by default, make even ordinary men look ridiculous when asked to be truly civilized.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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