"The majority of husbands remind me of an orangutan trying to play the violin"
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The “majority” matters. Balzac isn’t writing a private grievance; he’s issuing a demographic verdict, the novelist’s version of a statistical sneer. Marriage, in his world, is less romantic covenant than social machine: property, inheritance, respectability. Husbands are the beneficiaries of a system that grants authority without ensuring emotional literacy. So when they attempt the “violin” part of marriage - tenderness, attunement, conversational grace, erotic subtlety - they scrape and saw at it. The humor comes from watching power meet an instrument it doesn’t understand.
There’s subtext about women, too: if the husband is the orangutan, the wife becomes the unwilling audience, forced to applaud the performance because society insists it counts as music. Balzac’s larger project in La Comedie humaine is to anatomize how institutions turn people into types. This line does that in miniature, using animal metaphor not to dehumanize for sport, but to show how certain roles, when handed out by default, make even ordinary men look ridiculous when asked to be truly civilized.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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"The majority of husbands remind me of an orangutan trying to play the violin." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-majority-of-husbands-remind-me-of-an-41371/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







