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"The man who can dominate a London dinner-table can dominate the world"

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Power, Wilde suggests, isn’t seized on battlefields so much as negotiated over soup. “The man who can dominate a London dinner-table can dominate the world” is less a motivational poster than a sly audit of empire’s social machinery. London in Wilde’s lifetime wasn’t just a city; it was the switchboard of a global system. If you could command attention in its drawing rooms, you could shape reputations, secure patronage, set fashions, tilt politics. The dinner-table becomes a miniature parliament where the currency is charm, timing, and verbal precision.

Wilde’s intent is double-edged. On one level, he’s admiring the craft of social performance: the ability to read a room, land a line, and convert conversation into influence. On another, he’s skewering the pettiness and fragility of that power. “Dominate” is an aggressive verb for such a civilized setting, and that’s the joke: the world-spanning authority of the British Empire is shown to depend on who controls the talk. It’s a reminder that elites often govern through taste and exclusion as much as through law.

The subtext carries Wilde’s favorite irony: society worships “serious” force, yet it’s secretly ruled by theatricality. Coming from a dramatist who made salons and scandals into art, the line also reads as self-aware prophecy. Master the script in the right room, and history will treat your performance as reality.

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Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde (October 16, 1854 - November 30, 1900) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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