"The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you must accept regret"
About this Quote
Amiel wrote as a 19th-century moral philosopher steeped in introspection, when faith in reason and systems was colliding with the messy realities of industrial and political upheaval. His warning reads like an early critique of the rationalist fantasy: that life can be navigated like a proof. In practice, decisions happen under fog, and clarity often arrives only after commitment has forced the world to resolve.
The second sentence tightens the screw. “Accept life” doesn’t mean cheerful surrender; it means consenting to irreversibility. Regret is framed not as a pathology to eradicate but as the admission price for agency. If you act, you will foreclose options; if you love, you will risk loss; if you choose, you will later imagine the lives you didn’t live. Amiel’s subtext is austere but oddly liberating: the goal isn’t a regret-free existence, it’s a life robust enough to bear regret without letting it veto your future.
Quote Details
| Topic | Decision-Making |
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| Source | Henri Frédéric Amiel, Journal Intime (Private Journal) , passage commonly quoted and attributed to Amiel; see Wikiquote for the attribution. |
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Amiel, Henri Frederic. (2026, January 14). The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you must accept regret. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-man-who-insists-upon-seeing-with-perfect-60673/
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Amiel, Henri Frederic. "The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you must accept regret." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-man-who-insists-upon-seeing-with-perfect-60673/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he decides, never decides. Accept life, and you must accept regret." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-man-who-insists-upon-seeing-with-perfect-60673/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












