"The man who loves other countries as much as his own stands on a level with the man who loves other women as much as he loves his own wife"
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Roosevelt doesn’t argue for patriotism; he shames its absence by framing it as a kind of marital infidelity. The move is blunt on purpose: by yoking “other countries” to “other women,” he drags foreign sympathy out of the realm of ideas and into the realm of honor, loyalty, and masculine self-control. In his hands, cosmopolitanism isn’t broad-mindedness; it’s flirtation dressed up as virtue.
The intent is disciplinary. Roosevelt is drawing a bright moral line between admiration and allegiance, between learning from the world and diluting your duty to home. He’s also narrowing the acceptable emotional range of citizenship. Love, in his formulation, is a finite resource that must be conserved for one’s own nation, the way a husband’s devotion is owed to one wife. That’s not a neutral metaphor; it smuggles a whole social order into politics: monogamy as stability, fidelity as character, and any divided affection as weakness.
The subtext is anxious about elites and “hyphenated” identities, a recurring Roosevelt fixation in an era of mass immigration, labor unrest, and rising American overseas power. Around the Spanish-American War and the early 20th century’s debates about empire and national purpose, Roosevelt wanted a citizenry that would back state-building at home and projection abroad without second-guessing itself. The line isn’t really about travel or curiosity; it’s about policing loyalty. By making disloyalty sound tawdry, he turns a political disagreement into a moral failing, and dares the listener to object without seeming unmanly or unfaithful.
The intent is disciplinary. Roosevelt is drawing a bright moral line between admiration and allegiance, between learning from the world and diluting your duty to home. He’s also narrowing the acceptable emotional range of citizenship. Love, in his formulation, is a finite resource that must be conserved for one’s own nation, the way a husband’s devotion is owed to one wife. That’s not a neutral metaphor; it smuggles a whole social order into politics: monogamy as stability, fidelity as character, and any divided affection as weakness.
The subtext is anxious about elites and “hyphenated” identities, a recurring Roosevelt fixation in an era of mass immigration, labor unrest, and rising American overseas power. Around the Spanish-American War and the early 20th century’s debates about empire and national purpose, Roosevelt wanted a citizenry that would back state-building at home and projection abroad without second-guessing itself. The line isn’t really about travel or curiosity; it’s about policing loyalty. By making disloyalty sound tawdry, he turns a political disagreement into a moral failing, and dares the listener to object without seeming unmanly or unfaithful.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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