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Marriage Quote by Liz Smith

"The marriage didn't work out but the separation is great"

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A tidy little grenade of candor: it flips the expected script of marital failure into a punchline about liberation. Liz Smith, the famed gossip columnist who made a career out of turning private drama into public narrative, knows exactly how to make a hard truth feel breezy. The line lands because it refuses the standard etiquette of heartbreak. No solemnity, no self-pity, no performative maturity. Just a blunt verdict and a sly upgrade: the breakup is not merely survivable, its better.

The intent is pragmatic and slightly wicked. Smith isn’t offering a healing mantra; she’s offering a social permission slip. In a culture that still treats marriage as the default success metric, she recasts separation as an improvement rather than an embarrassment. That’s not optimism, it’s reframing with teeth. The subtext is that the institution can fail without the people failing, and that the real victory is reclaiming your day-to-day life from a bad arrangement.

Context matters: Smith’s beat was celebrity and high-society misbehavior, where appearances are currency and scandal is theater. In that world, “it didn’t work out” is the polite euphemism, and “the separation is great” is the unapologetic aside you’d only say once you’ve stopped auditioning for sympathy. It’s also the line of someone who understands narrative control. If gossip is going to write your story anyway, you might as well hand it a better ending.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Liz. (2026, January 16). The marriage didn't work out but the separation is great. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-marriage-didnt-work-out-but-the-separation-is-114237/

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Smith, Liz. "The marriage didn't work out but the separation is great." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-marriage-didnt-work-out-but-the-separation-is-114237/.

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"The marriage didn't work out but the separation is great." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-marriage-didnt-work-out-but-the-separation-is-114237/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Liz Smith (February 2, 1923 - November 12, 2017) was a Journalist from USA.

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