"The measure of choosing well, is, whether a man likes and finds good in what he has chosen"
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That verb choice matters. “Likes” sounds almost embarrassingly plain, even childish, and that’s part of the sly force: Lamb smuggles a radical claim through everyday language. He’s not romanticizing impulse. He’s arguing for congruence - for the idea that judgment is proved by a durable, repeatable pleasure that can say, with time, “yes, this still feels right.” “Finds good” adds a second register: not just enjoyment, but an ethical and aesthetic recognition that the chosen thing has worth. Pleasure alone can be fickle; goodness alone can be performative. Lamb wants the overlap.
As a critic in the early 19th century, writing in an era that prized propriety, canon, and the slow rise of middle-class self-improvement, Lamb’s emphasis on inward assent reads like a gentle rebellion. It deflates status-chasing and secondhand opinion. The subtext is pointed: if your “good” choices make you miserable, you haven’t chosen well - you’ve complied well.
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Lamb, Charles. (2026, January 15). The measure of choosing well, is, whether a man likes and finds good in what he has chosen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-measure-of-choosing-well-is-whether-a-man-141909/
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"The measure of choosing well, is, whether a man likes and finds good in what he has chosen." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-measure-of-choosing-well-is-whether-a-man-141909/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.









