"The men are much alarmed by certain speculations about women; and well they may be, for when the horse and ass begin to think and argue, adieu to riding and driving"
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The brilliance is in the mock-fable framing. “Adieu to riding and driving” is a crisp, aristocratic goodbye to an entire economy of entitlement. Procter doesn’t need to shout; she lets the metaphor indict the rider. The joke lands because it’s not exaggerated. Victorian gender ideology did, in practice, imagine women as useful, manageable, and morally decorative, with education carefully rationed to avoid “unsexing” them. Procter, writing in the mid-19th century amid growing agitation for women’s education and legal rights, catches the moment when the old order realizes it may have to negotiate with the people it assumed were mute.
There’s also a tactical empathy in the phrasing: “well they may be.” She grants the fear its logic, then reveals that logic as ugly. If women are allowed to reason, the “natural” right to steer them evaporates. That’s not a threat to civilization; it’s a threat to men who mistake dominance for destiny.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Procter, Adelaide Anne. (2026, January 16). The men are much alarmed by certain speculations about women; and well they may be, for when the horse and ass begin to think and argue, adieu to riding and driving. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-men-are-much-alarmed-by-certain-speculations-126864/
Chicago Style
Procter, Adelaide Anne. "The men are much alarmed by certain speculations about women; and well they may be, for when the horse and ass begin to think and argue, adieu to riding and driving." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-men-are-much-alarmed-by-certain-speculations-126864/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The men are much alarmed by certain speculations about women; and well they may be, for when the horse and ass begin to think and argue, adieu to riding and driving." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-men-are-much-alarmed-by-certain-speculations-126864/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







