"The minute you or anybody else knows what you are you are not it, you are what you or anybody else knows you are and as everything in living is made up of finding out what you are it is extraordinarily difficult really not to know what you are and yet to be that thing"
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The intent is deeply modernist: break the faith that words simply describe reality. Stein writes like someone watching language manufacture identity in real time. That’s why the syntax refuses to sit still. It enacts the problem it describes: consciousness chasing itself, always a beat behind. The subtext is that “finding out what you are” is not a noble journey but a culturally enforced compulsion, one that ends in a tidy product you can sell, explain, or defend. Knowing becomes a trap because it recruits you into performance.
Context matters. Stein lived in a moment when psychology, sexuality, and aesthetics were being reorganized and policed, when “types” (the invert, the genius, the modern woman) were hardening into categories. As a queer American expatriate at the center of Parisian modernism, she’s suspicious of any stable “self” that can be recognized on command. The final twist - “extraordinarily difficult really not to know what you are and yet to be that thing” - is her bleak joke: you’re asked to live authentically in a culture that demands you narrate yourself into a cliché first.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stein, Gertrude. (2026, January 18). The minute you or anybody else knows what you are you are not it, you are what you or anybody else knows you are and as everything in living is made up of finding out what you are it is extraordinarily difficult really not to know what you are and yet to be that thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-minute-you-or-anybody-else-knows-what-you-are-7351/
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Stein, Gertrude. "The minute you or anybody else knows what you are you are not it, you are what you or anybody else knows you are and as everything in living is made up of finding out what you are it is extraordinarily difficult really not to know what you are and yet to be that thing." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-minute-you-or-anybody-else-knows-what-you-are-7351/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The minute you or anybody else knows what you are you are not it, you are what you or anybody else knows you are and as everything in living is made up of finding out what you are it is extraordinarily difficult really not to know what you are and yet to be that thing." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-minute-you-or-anybody-else-knows-what-you-are-7351/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.














