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Time & Perspective Quote by John McLaughlin

"The moment you start to talk about playing music, you destroy music. It cannot be talked about. It can only be played, enjoyed and listened to"

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McLaughlin is throwing a small grenade into the room where critics, teachers, and gearheads love to camp out. His point isn’t anti-intellectual so much as pro-experience: the minute you translate music into language, you risk swapping the thing itself for a story about the thing. Talk becomes a proxy. You start defending tastes, naming modes, litigating authenticity, and suddenly the sound is gone, replaced by social positioning.

The intent is protective. A virtuoso with a deep theoretical toolkit, McLaughlin isn’t allergic to knowledge; he’s warning about the moment analysis starts acting like ownership. In jazz and fusion especially, “explaining” can become a quiet form of control: reducing improvisation to a set of tricks, turning mystery into a résumé. His phrasing is deliberately absolute - “destroy,” “cannot” - because it’s pushing back against a culture that treats every feeling as content to be processed and posted.

There’s also a musician’s impatience here with commentary as performance. Talking about music can let listeners feel adjacent to mastery without risking the vulnerability of listening closely, or playing badly, or being changed by a piece. “Played, enjoyed and listened to” reads like a three-step ethic: make it, receive it, be present with it.

Context matters: McLaughlin came up in scenes where the deepest communication happened onstage, in real time, across glances and rhythmic cues. Language is too slow for that. The subtext isn’t “stop thinking.” It’s “stop substituting.”

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McLaughlin, John. (2026, January 17). The moment you start to talk about playing music, you destroy music. It cannot be talked about. It can only be played, enjoyed and listened to. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-moment-you-start-to-talk-about-playing-music-52230/

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McLaughlin, John. "The moment you start to talk about playing music, you destroy music. It cannot be talked about. It can only be played, enjoyed and listened to." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-moment-you-start-to-talk-about-playing-music-52230/.

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"The moment you start to talk about playing music, you destroy music. It cannot be talked about. It can only be played, enjoyed and listened to." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-moment-you-start-to-talk-about-playing-music-52230/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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John McLaughlin (born January 4, 1942) is a Musician from England.

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