"The moment you're born, you're done for"
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The intent isn’t nihilism so much as anti-romantic realism. Bennett, a novelist associated with the gritty textures of ordinary life, is interested in what people do under pressure: routine, compromise, ambition, small freedoms. By framing birth as doom, he strips away the comforting myth of exceptional destiny. You’re not chosen; you’re enrolled. The subtext is democratic and slightly cruel: everyone gets the same ending, so the real drama is how you fill the middle, and how quickly you learn that the world will not pause for your self-image.
Context matters. Bennett wrote in a Britain reshaped by industrial modernity, where lives were increasingly measured by schedules, wages, and social mobility, not pastoral timelessness. In that climate, “done for” also reads as a critique of progress narratives: the machine keeps moving, and you’re already on the conveyor belt. The wit is dark but purposeful. It doesn’t ask you to despair; it dares you to be unsentimental about time, and therefore more serious about living.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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"The moment you're born, you're done for." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-moment-youre-born-youre-done-for-38328/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.






