"The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together"
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The subtext is quietly corrective. It pushes back on relationships that run on chemistry alone, or on the modern temptation to outsource closeness to convenience: good sex, good vibes, good optics. By insisting on “not just between your bodies,” she implies that physical connection without emotional infrastructure is thin, maybe even counterfeit. “Fabric” is doing heavy lifting here: it suggests something woven over time, resilient but also vulnerable to fraying if neglected. That metaphor smuggles in a gentle warning while keeping the tone aspirational.
Context matters: De Angelis writes from the late-20th-century American self-help tradition, where psychology, pop spirituality, and romantic individualism merge. The promise of “real moments” speaks to an audience suspicious of performative love and hungry for proof of authenticity. It’s less about metaphysics than about a practical credo: shared meaning is the strongest aphrodisiac, and the closest thing relationships get to durability.
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Angelis, Barbara de. (2026, January 16). The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-connections-you-and-your-lover-make-not-120010/
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Angelis, Barbara de. "The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-connections-you-and-your-lover-make-not-120010/.
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"The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-connections-you-and-your-lover-make-not-120010/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.







