"The more I read about feeding times, sleep times and waking-up times, the more inadequate and miserable I felt"
About this Quote
Porter’s specific intent reads like a confession and a warning. Confession: the spiral of comparison is real, even for someone with fame and access. Warning: the parenting-industrial complex sells certainty, then bills you in shame when your life won’t fit the template. The subtext is about control. Timetables promise mastery over chaos, and when that mastery proves impossible, the failure gets personalized. Not "this system is unrealistic", but "I am inadequate."
The context matters: Porter has been open about mental health struggles, and celebrity motherhood is a particularly surveilled version of parenting. If you’re famous, your body, your choices, your competence get audited in public. Advice culture becomes another camera angle.
The craft of the quote is its blunt emotional pivot. Reading - an act associated with empowerment - becomes the trigger for misery. It captures a distinctly contemporary kind of anxiety: drowning in guidance, starving for grace.
Quote Details
| Topic | New Mom |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Porter, Gail. (2026, January 16). The more I read about feeding times, sleep times and waking-up times, the more inadequate and miserable I felt. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-i-read-about-feeding-times-sleep-times-90831/
Chicago Style
Porter, Gail. "The more I read about feeding times, sleep times and waking-up times, the more inadequate and miserable I felt." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-i-read-about-feeding-times-sleep-times-90831/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The more I read about feeding times, sleep times and waking-up times, the more inadequate and miserable I felt." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-i-read-about-feeding-times-sleep-times-90831/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









