"The more one judges, the less one loves"
About this Quote
The subtext is about power. To judge is to stand above, to make another person a case study rather than a participant in your life. Love, in Balzac’s world, is attention without constant prosecution. It’s not blindness; it’s a suspension of the courtroom posture that turns every flaw into evidence. The line also hints at a particularly modern pathology: the way moral seriousness can curdle into a hobby of sorting, scoring, and declaring. When everything is up for evaluation, affection becomes conditional, and conditional affection is just a contract with better lighting.
Context matters here: Balzac wrote amid post-Revolutionary France’s shifting classes, where reputation and social legibility could decide a life. His Comedie humaine is crowded with climbers, snobs, and self-justifiers, people trained to read one another as status signals. In that environment, judgment is social currency. Balzac’s insight is that this currency purchases distance. It buys safety, superiority, and a clean conscience, but it quietly forecloses the one thing his novels keep chasing: human connection that survives the full inventory of a person.
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| Topic | Love |
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Balzac, Honore de. (2026, January 15). The more one judges, the less one loves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-one-judges-the-less-one-loves-24234/
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Balzac, Honore de. "The more one judges, the less one loves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-one-judges-the-less-one-loves-24234/.
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"The more one judges, the less one loves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-one-judges-the-less-one-loves-24234/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






