"The more you turn down things, the more difficult it becomes to feel that the next one will be right"
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The intent feels practical, almost workmanlike, which tracks for an actress whose career has been built on choosing risk over comfort. Turn down enough roles, invitations, relationships, and you don’t simply narrow the field; you narrow your emotional range. The subtext is about momentum and trust: trust in your instincts, trust that life isn’t only an endless audition, trust that “right” is something you can recognize rather than a myth that keeps receding.
The phrasing matters. “Feel” is doing the heavy lifting, not “think.” She’s describing a somatic drift: the body learns to brace for mismatch. And “the next one” is a little cruel in its ordinariness. Not “the perfect one,” just the next opportunity on the conveyor belt. That’s the cultural sting, too, in an era that markets infinite choice as freedom: constant opting out can turn into a lifestyle where nothing is allowed to land.
It’s a warning aimed at the high-functioning skeptic: refusing can become its own identity, and then “right” stops being a decision and becomes an alibi.
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Gainsbourg, Charlotte. (2026, January 17). The more you turn down things, the more difficult it becomes to feel that the next one will be right. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-you-turn-down-things-the-more-difficult-79707/
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MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The more you turn down things, the more difficult it becomes to feel that the next one will be right." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-more-you-turn-down-things-the-more-difficult-79707/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





