"The most important thing to do is really listen"
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The intent is practical and slightly corrective. Musicians are trained to project, to lead, to fill space. Perlman flips the hierarchy: listening comes first because it’s how you locate the music that’s already happening - in an ensemble, in a hall, inside your own instrument. “Really” does heavy lifting here, implying most of us only perform listening. We wait for our turn to respond, we skim for what confirms our preference, we mistake volume for meaning. Perlman’s adverb calls that bluff.
The subtext is also cultural: virtuosity has become a spectacle, and spectacle rewards the loudest signal. Listening, by contrast, is slow, bodily, and relational. It requires surrendering a little ego - hearing the other player’s line, the audience’s breath, the room’s resonance - and letting those facts change what you do next. That’s why the quote works: it’s a master technician arguing for humility, and a famous performer reminding you the deepest artistry is not output but perception. In music, that’s the difference between playing at people and playing with them.
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Perlman, Itzhak. "The most important thing to do is really listen." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-most-important-thing-to-do-is-really-listen-132978/.
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"The most important thing to do is really listen." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-most-important-thing-to-do-is-really-listen-132978/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










