"The most merciful thing that a family does to one of its infant members is to kill it"
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The subtext is both pragmatic and coercive. "Family" casts the act as intimate and private, not criminal; it relocates responsibility from the state to the household, where desperation is hardest to police and easiest to romanticize. "Infant members" is clinical, almost bureaucratic, as if a baby is a unit in a system - language that reveals how easily care can be reframed as management. Mercy becomes a cover for triage.
Context matters because Sanger’s activism sits in the early 20th century pressure-cooker of birth control politics, public health crises, and eugenic thinking that circulated among progressives of the era. The line reads less like a policy proposal than an extremist lever: a provocation meant to make contraception seem like the humane alternative. It works by making the status quo sound like the real violence, and by implying that denying people control over reproduction is what drives families to desperate, unspeakable edges.
Quote Details
| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: Woman and the New Race (Margaret Sanger, 1920)
Evidence: The most merciful thing that the large family does to one of its infant members is to kill it. (Chapter V, "The Wickedness of Creating Large Families" (page number not given in Project Gutenberg HTML edition)). Primary-source verification: the sentence appears in Margaret Sanger’s own book, in Ch... Other candidates (1) A Woman's Nation or Satan's Deceit... (M.C. HIZEDEK, 2012) compilation95.0% ... Sanger to write , “ The most merciful thing that a family does to one of its infant members is to kill it . MARGA... |
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"The most merciful thing that a family does to one of its infant members is to kill it." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-most-merciful-thing-that-a-family-does-to-one-77864/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










