"The nerves are a problem on trumpet, because when you mess up everyone can hear it. Just remember most people are too polite to say anything about it. That should calm your nerves"
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The punchline is the pivot: “most people are too polite to say anything.” It’s funny because it’s true, and a little dark because it reframes the audience not as judges but as social actors. Concert etiquette becomes a psychological safety net. Marsalis isn’t promising you’ll play perfectly; he’s reminding you that the worst-case scenario is rarely as catastrophic as your adrenal system insists. The subtext is a survival tactic every performer learns: the crowd’s attention is real, but their scrutiny is often softer, shorter, and more distracted than you imagine.
There’s also a sly lesson about professionalism. “That should calm your nerves” sounds like a throwaway, but it nudges you toward emotional discipline: accept vulnerability, then get on with the work. Coming from Marsalis - a musician associated with precision, tradition, and high standards - the humor matters. It’s generosity without sentimentality, an older pro telling younger players that stage fright is normal, mistakes are audible, and the world doesn’t end. The trick is to stop auditioning for an imaginary tribunal and start playing for actual human beings.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Marsalis, Wynton. (2026, January 16). The nerves are a problem on trumpet, because when you mess up everyone can hear it. Just remember most people are too polite to say anything about it. That should calm your nerves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-nerves-are-a-problem-on-trumpet-because-when-92036/
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Marsalis, Wynton. "The nerves are a problem on trumpet, because when you mess up everyone can hear it. Just remember most people are too polite to say anything about it. That should calm your nerves." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-nerves-are-a-problem-on-trumpet-because-when-92036/.
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"The nerves are a problem on trumpet, because when you mess up everyone can hear it. Just remember most people are too polite to say anything about it. That should calm your nerves." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-nerves-are-a-problem-on-trumpet-because-when-92036/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



