"The object of my relationship with Vietnam has been to heal the wounds that exist, particularly among our veterans, and to move forward with a positive relationship,... Apparently some in the Vietnamese government don't want to do that and that's their decision"
About this Quote
The line “move forward with a positive relationship” is classic reconciliation rhetoric, but it’s also an invitation to normalize outcomes that might otherwise look like capitulation. It asks listeners to treat yesterday’s enemy as tomorrow’s partner, not because anyone was right, but because the alternative is perpetual trauma and diplomatic paralysis.
Then comes the pivot: “Apparently some in the Vietnamese government don’t want to do that.” The word “apparently” performs innocence while planting blame. It signals: I’m open-handed; the obstruction is on their side. “That’s their decision” finishes the move by moralizing refusal as choice, not necessity, dodging the messy reasons governments resist reconciliation: internal factionalism, fear of losing face, or suspicion that “healing” is a softer word for rewriting history on someone else’s terms.
Context matters: Ho’s revolutionary politics were forged in anti-colonial struggle, where legitimacy was always contested and international optics were battlefield terrain. This quote reads like an attempt to claim the future while assigning the past to those who won’t “move forward.”
Quote Details
| Topic | Peace |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Minh, Ho Chi. (2026, January 18). The object of my relationship with Vietnam has been to heal the wounds that exist, particularly among our veterans, and to move forward with a positive relationship,... Apparently some in the Vietnamese government don't want to do that and that's their decision. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-object-of-my-relationship-with-vietnam-has-18889/
Chicago Style
Minh, Ho Chi. "The object of my relationship with Vietnam has been to heal the wounds that exist, particularly among our veterans, and to move forward with a positive relationship,... Apparently some in the Vietnamese government don't want to do that and that's their decision." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-object-of-my-relationship-with-vietnam-has-18889/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The object of my relationship with Vietnam has been to heal the wounds that exist, particularly among our veterans, and to move forward with a positive relationship,... Apparently some in the Vietnamese government don't want to do that and that's their decision." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-object-of-my-relationship-with-vietnam-has-18889/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.



