"The old know what they want; the young are sad and bewildered"
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“Young” land in a harsher register: not merely uncertain, but “sad and bewildered.” That pairing is surgical. Bewilderment is cognitive overload; sadness is the emotional tax of having too many doors and no map. Smith’s subtext is that modern life (even in his early 20th-century milieu of shifting class structures, industrial pace, and fraying certainties) manufactures choice faster than it manufactures meaning. Youth are not failing; they are responding normally to an environment that demands self-invention without supplying stable templates.
There’s also a sly, faintly cynical implication about the old: knowing what you want might come from having fewer options, fewer illusions, and less time. Desire becomes coherent when the future shrinks. The quote’s sting is its suggestion that clarity isn’t a triumph of character so much as a byproduct of constraint. Read now, in an era of infinite feeds and delayed adulthood, it still lands: bewilderment isn’t a phase to outgrow; it’s the price of living in a culture that keeps multiplying selves.
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| Topic | Aging |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Logan P. (2026, January 16). The old know what they want; the young are sad and bewildered. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-old-know-what-they-want-the-young-are-sad-and-99970/
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Smith, Logan P. "The old know what they want; the young are sad and bewildered." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-old-know-what-they-want-the-young-are-sad-and-99970/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The old know what they want; the young are sad and bewildered." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-old-know-what-they-want-the-young-are-sad-and-99970/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.









