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Time & Perspective Quote by Brian Sibley

"The older we get, the swifter time seems to pass and the quicker memories seem to fade"

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Aging doesn’t just change the body; it rewrites the user interface of reality. Brian Sibley’s line lands because it’s built on a double acceleration: time “passes” faster while memory “fades” faster, leaving you with the sensation of speed and the evidence of disappearance. That pairing is the quiet horror. If you can’t hold on to what happened, you can’t even prove to yourself that it happened at the pace you felt it.

The intent feels less like a grand philosophical pronouncement than a plainspoken diagnosis from a working writer: the raw materials of story - lived time and recalled time - become less reliable as the years stack up. “Seems” does a lot of work here. Sibley isn’t claiming physics changes; he’s describing perception turning subjective and slippery, the way birthdays start arriving like invoices. The subtext is a mild protest against the cultural script of “aging gracefully.” There’s grief here, but it’s understated, almost procedural: the calendar speeds up, the archive corrupts.

Context matters too. Sibley, best known for cultural writing and media histories, operates in a world where preservation is a professional instinct - documenting, curating, annotating. That makes the second clause sting: even for someone trained to remember, memory still erodes. The quote also echoes a modern anxiety: we live amid unprecedented external storage (photos, posts, cloud backups) while internal storage feels increasingly unreliable. It’s not nostalgia; it’s the fear that your life becomes a highlight reel with missing footage, and the reel is spinning faster every year.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sibley, Brian. (n.d.). The older we get, the swifter time seems to pass and the quicker memories seem to fade. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-older-we-get-the-swifter-time-seems-to-pass-48419/

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Sibley, Brian. "The older we get, the swifter time seems to pass and the quicker memories seem to fade." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-older-we-get-the-swifter-time-seems-to-pass-48419/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The older we get, the swifter time seems to pass and the quicker memories seem to fade." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-older-we-get-the-swifter-time-seems-to-pass-48419/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Brian Sibley (born July 14, 1949) is a Writer from England.

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