"The one important thing I have learned over the years is the difference between taking one's work seriously and taking one's self seriously. The first is imperative and the second is disastrous"
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Fonteyn draws a clean line that most ambitious people spend a lifetime smudging. Taking the work seriously is devotion to craft: the class at the barre when no one is watching, the punishing repetition, the willingness to be corrected, the humility to start over. Taking the self seriously is something else: the fragile ego that needs the room to agree, the myth of the “genius” who must be handled gently, the belief that one’s identity is the product rather than the practice.
Coming from a ballerina, the warning has extra bite because ballet practically manufactures self-seriousness. The art form is built on scrutiny: mirrors, rankings, bodies evaluated as instruments, careers that can hinge on a single review or injury. Stardom is real, but it is also precarious and, in Fonteyn’s era, especially gendered: women were expected to be flawless and gracious while being treated as replaceable. In that environment, confusing personal importance with professional responsibility is easy, even incentivized.
Her phrasing works because it’s blunt and asymmetrical. “Imperative” suggests ethics, not just ambition; you owe the work your seriousness. “Disastrous” suggests consequences beyond mere annoyance: self-seriousness breeds defensiveness, resentment, and a performative identity that can’t risk failure. Fonteyn’s subtext is a survival strategy disguised as a moral distinction: if you anchor your pride in the work, you can be rigorous without becoming brittle. If you anchor it in yourself, every note of criticism becomes an existential threat.
Coming from a ballerina, the warning has extra bite because ballet practically manufactures self-seriousness. The art form is built on scrutiny: mirrors, rankings, bodies evaluated as instruments, careers that can hinge on a single review or injury. Stardom is real, but it is also precarious and, in Fonteyn’s era, especially gendered: women were expected to be flawless and gracious while being treated as replaceable. In that environment, confusing personal importance with professional responsibility is easy, even incentivized.
Her phrasing works because it’s blunt and asymmetrical. “Imperative” suggests ethics, not just ambition; you owe the work your seriousness. “Disastrous” suggests consequences beyond mere annoyance: self-seriousness breeds defensiveness, resentment, and a performative identity that can’t risk failure. Fonteyn’s subtext is a survival strategy disguised as a moral distinction: if you anchor your pride in the work, you can be rigorous without becoming brittle. If you anchor it in yourself, every note of criticism becomes an existential threat.
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| Topic | Work Ethic |
|---|---|
| Source | Margot Fonteyn — attribution listed on Wikiquote page 'Margot Fonteyn' (quote appears there). |
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