"The one who cannot restrain their anger will wish undone, what their temper and irritation prompted them to do"
About this Quote
Horace wrote in a culture that prized self-mastery as social technology. Under Augustus, stability was marketed as a virtue after decades of civil war. In that setting, anger isn’t just personal weakness; it’s a political and interpersonal liability. A person who “cannot restrain” themselves becomes unreliable, someone whose decisions can’t be trusted because they’re made by weather, not judgment.
The subtext is also classed and practical. Horace is speaking to the ambitious, the socially mobile, the people navigating patronage, reputation, and the tight choreography of public life. An outburst doesn’t merely feel ugly; it creates irreversible artifacts: a letter sent, a friendship ruptured, a subordinate humiliated, a promise broken. The poem’s wisdom is procedural rather than inspirational: pause now, because you can’t litigate your way out of what you did while hot.
It’s restraint as foresight, and regret as the predictable invoice for emotional impulsivity.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Horace. (2026, January 17). The one who cannot restrain their anger will wish undone, what their temper and irritation prompted them to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-one-who-cannot-restrain-their-anger-will-wish-24567/
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Horace. "The one who cannot restrain their anger will wish undone, what their temper and irritation prompted them to do." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-one-who-cannot-restrain-their-anger-will-wish-24567/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The one who cannot restrain their anger will wish undone, what their temper and irritation prompted them to do." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-one-who-cannot-restrain-their-anger-will-wish-24567/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








