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Daily Inspiration Quote by Eleanor Roosevelt

"The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are"

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A domestic confession that doubles as a social jab: Eleanor Roosevelt turns the supposedly humble housekeeper’s lament into a critique of status, competition, and the theater of “good” womanhood. The line works because it refuses the usual apology. Instead of begging pardon for dust or disorder, she reframes the mess as an unexpected gift to visitors: the pleasure of superiority. That twist is funny, but it’s also acid. Guests aren’t simply being hosted; they’re auditioning for virtue, measuring themselves against the woman of the house and walking away buoyed by a small win.

The subtext is Roosevelt’s quiet rebellion against the suffocating expectations placed on women, especially women in public life. As First Lady, she lived under a microscope that scrutinized everything from her politics to her presentation. Housekeeping, in that world, wasn’t neutral labor; it was moral shorthand for femininity, discipline, and respectability. By admitting she’s “not too good” at it, she punctures the myth that domestic perfection is a prerequisite for legitimacy.

There’s also an astute read of class dynamics. “Guests” here aren’t family or intimates; they’re social actors who enjoy the reassurance that hierarchy still exists, even in someone else’s home. Roosevelt’s wit makes the point without sermonizing: the domestic sphere can be less a sanctuary than a scoreboard. If people insist on keeping score, she suggests, she can at least control the punchline.

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Roosevelt, Eleanor. (2026, January 17). The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-advantage-of-not-being-too-good-a-43416/

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Roosevelt, Eleanor. "The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-advantage-of-not-being-too-good-a-43416/.

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"The only advantage of not being too good a housekeeper is that your guests are so pleased to feel how very much better they are." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-advantage-of-not-being-too-good-a-43416/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Eleanor Roosevelt (October 11, 1884 - November 7, 1962) was a First Lady from USA.

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