"The only love affair I have ever had was with music"
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The wording is tellingly exclusive. Not "my great love" but "the only" affair, as if human relationships were distractions from the real pursuit: precision, color, craft. Ravel's music is famously sensuous, yet engineered with jeweler-level exactness. That tension between surface pleasure and structural discipline is the subtext here: music is where he can be passionately extravagant without surrendering control. An affair implies secrecy and private rituals; it fits the studio, the notebook, the long solitary hours where obsession can masquerade as fidelity.
The cultural context sharpens the line. Early 20th-century France was full of artistic mythmaking: the tormented genius, the bohemian lover. Ravel, meticulous and private, refuses the cliché by offering a substitute romance that is both socially safe and artistically total. It's also a quiet rebuke to audiences who demand a juicy personal story to "explain" the work. He gives them one - and makes it clear the partner was never a person.
Quote Details
| Topic | Music |
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| Source | Quotation attributed to Maurice Ravel — listed on Wikiquote (Maurice Ravel page). |
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Ravel, Maurice. (2026, January 15). The only love affair I have ever had was with music. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-love-affair-i-have-ever-had-was-with-165482/
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Ravel, Maurice. "The only love affair I have ever had was with music." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-love-affair-i-have-ever-had-was-with-165482/.
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"The only love affair I have ever had was with music." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-love-affair-i-have-ever-had-was-with-165482/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.



