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Daily Inspiration Quote by Frances McDormand

"The only power you have is the word no"

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In an industry built to persuade you that you are lucky to be chosen, Frances McDormand flips the script: your leverage is refusal. "The only power you have is the word no" lands with the bracing clarity of someone who has watched countless rooms reward compliance, charm, and silence. It is not a motivational poster about confidence; it is a practical survival tool for anyone navigating a hierarchy where gatekeepers control money, access, and attention.

The line’s sting is in its austerity. McDormand doesn’t promise you influence, negotiation tricks, or a seat at the table. She names the one move that can’t be taken from you without force: opting out. Subtext: systems love "yes" people because yes is frictionless. No introduces cost. It slows the conveyor belt. It forces a recalculation. In Hollywood, that can mean turning down demeaning roles, predatory situations, punishing schedules, press narratives that flatten you into a brand. More broadly, it speaks to workplaces that sell "opportunity" while quietly demanding self-erasure.

McDormand’s persona matters here: she’s famous for not performing likability as currency. Coming from her, "no" isn’t petulance; it’s boundary as craft. The word also carries solidarity in its simplicity. You don’t need credentials to refuse. You need nerve, and sometimes a safety net. That’s the harsher underside of the quote: no is power, but it can be expensive. The point is to spend it anyway, strategically, before the world spends you.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
McDormand, Frances. (2026, January 15). The only power you have is the word no. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-power-you-have-is-the-word-no-128960/

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McDormand, Frances. "The only power you have is the word no." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-power-you-have-is-the-word-no-128960/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The only power you have is the word no." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-power-you-have-is-the-word-no-128960/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Frances McDormand

Frances McDormand (born June 23, 1957) is a Actress from USA.

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