"The only real failure in life is the failure to try"
About this Quote
The subtext is a challenge to the self-protective stories we tell. Not trying is framed as a choice, a kind of cowardice: you weren’t rejected, you opted out. For people paralyzed by perfectionism, shame, or fear of being seen attempting, that’s exactly the pressure point. It makes “trying” less about heroic ambition and more about refusing to let dread write your biography.
Context matters: D’Angelo is a contemporary self-help and inspirational writer, and the quote fits late-20th-century American optimism where character is measured in initiative. It works because it offers a simple trade: downgrade the terror of failing publicly, upgrade the dignity of effort privately. The risk is that it can flatten legitimate constraints into mere mindset, implying that those who don’t “try” just didn’t want it enough. As a mantra, it’s potent; as a worldview, it can be unforgiving.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
D'Angelo, Anthony J. (2026, January 14). The only real failure in life is the failure to try. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-real-failure-in-life-is-the-failure-to-172345/
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D'Angelo, Anthony J. "The only real failure in life is the failure to try." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-real-failure-in-life-is-the-failure-to-172345/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The only real failure in life is the failure to try." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-real-failure-in-life-is-the-failure-to-172345/. Accessed 14 Feb. 2026.










