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Daily Inspiration Quote by George Bernard Shaw

"The only service a friend can really render is to keep up your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself"

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Friendship, for Shaw, isn’t a cozy hammock; it’s a piece of stagecraft. The “only service” line is classic Shaw provocation, narrowing a huge human relationship down to one job and daring you to argue. In a single stroke he demotes the usual friend-duties - sympathy, advice, practical help - and crowns something more psychologically savvy: the friend as mirror, not nurse.

The subtext is that courage isn’t primarily manufactured in private. It’s social. People become braver when someone else behaves as if their better self is real and reachable. Shaw’s “noble image” isn’t flattery; it’s an aspirational reflection, a deliberately edited portrait. A good friend doesn’t report your current face with brutal accuracy; they hold up the version of you that could exist if you lived up to your own ideals. That’s why the mirror matters: it externalizes self-respect, making it harder to dismiss as mere self-talk.

Coming from a dramatist steeped in argument and moral contrarianism, the metaphor also signals performance. Shaw’s characters are constantly revealed, corrected, or elevated through conversation that functions like a spotlight. Friendship, in this view, is a private theatre where another person helps you rehearse bravery until it becomes believable.

Contextually, Shaw wrote in a culture of late-Victorian respectability and early modern disillusionment, where “nobility” could sound like a costume. He keeps the word anyway, but he relocates it: not in class or pedigree, in character under pressure. The friend’s gift is to insist you’re capable of that character when you most doubt it.

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Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 17). The only service a friend can really render is to keep up your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-service-a-friend-can-really-render-is-to-29177/

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Shaw, George Bernard. "The only service a friend can really render is to keep up your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-service-a-friend-can-really-render-is-to-29177/.

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"The only service a friend can really render is to keep up your courage by holding up to you a mirror in which you can see a noble image of yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-only-service-a-friend-can-really-render-is-to-29177/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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George Bernard Shaw (July 26, 1856 - November 2, 1950) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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